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In a message dated 4/22/02 4:22:51 PM, webmaster@AlbuquerqueNM.com writes:
Hurry while supples last.
Invite your fellow associates..
Open listing in the internetcremation sites.. No fees to list your cremation/funeral home site with us.. and make sure you are in the iCremation sites. Make sure you get the cremation business.. I need the work, to help me with my therapy.. Thank you for your support and prayers.
Thank you for your considerations and time.
Robin G. Wall
Aurora Casket company invited a few funeral professionals to have a look at their Metal Casket Plant in Aurora Indiana, I was surprised to see over three hundred people working at the plant hand crafting their beautiful caskets, we watched as rolls of steel are pressed into pieces of casket parts, huge machines very impressive to see the whole casket shell constructed, each worker goes at their own pace and I was surprised to see the employees spend as much time as they did checking the quality of their product, making sure it was just right, it was interesting to meet the interior makers, each of them happy to explain how they make the interior head panels look so distinctive and the same care and attention to the quality of their finished product, we watched Bronze, Copper, Stainless and 18 ga. Steel caskets being handcrafted with beaming pride in their aurora product. Next we enjoyed Aurora's Total Solutions Gallery, Steve Penman Aurora's Marketing Manager gave us plenty of information on marketing and new products I learned a few new ways to enhance my presentation. Next we were off to a night of the fabulous Belterra Casino & Resort in Belterra Indiana, we had dinner together at the Resort's finest restaurant swapping industry ideas, solutions problems. Some of us enjoyed the River Boat Casino, the Las Vegas Style room was fabulous, all clear glass shower, jacuzzi tub with television and coffee in the bath room what a way to start the day. Day two we were whisked to a tour of the administration meeting the people who we talk to all the time ordering over the telephones a very high tech system that distributed calls to personnel most efficiently. We were introduced to Aurora's E-Business Ben Melillo, Client Systems Product Manager, we have been ordering online and we are very satisfied, to order a casket online at 10AM and have the truck in the yard that afternoon was a pleasant surprise, e-business with Aurora saves you money too. Then they showed us the Latest and Greatest "Family Advisor" this computer system used a wireless keyboard and mouse with a huge flat plasma screen, very impressive, Aurora's latest version of Family Advisor will be handling data intake, the way to go with the electronic death certificate becoming mandatory next year Aurora's Family Advisor is in the right place at the right time, we plan on implementing the Family Advisor in our funeral home because of the round the clock support to keep you up and running. Aurora also show us how they can and do help funeral service get onto the web. I had a great time and learned a lot while on this visit to Aurora Casket Company and I want to thank namely: Marc Fleming, Rege Niederberger, Cathy Rowland, Chris Barrott and Chip Ray to name just a few of the over four hundred people who help us offer the finest caskets in the world to the families we serve. Thanks very much, oh one more thing, the lunches in Aurora are excellent we sat outside enjoying a perfect spring day, watching the commercial boat traffic on the Ohio River as we enjoyed lunch, have you ever had a prime rib & cheese sandwich? What a treat, THANKS VERY MUCH AURORA, you guys are the best!
In a message dated 4/26/02 7:01:14 PM, dkneib@nfda.org writes: Hello, John! If you have the chance, check out our Website Breaking News! at www.nfda.org. We have the oral testimony from Diana posted as well as photos from the hearing today with latest press release.
Drop me a line if you have any questions. Dave Kneib
In a message dated 4/18/02 5:14:46 PM, Lisa Carlson writes us: Sen. Dodd is holding a hearing on the funeral industry next Friday in the Senate Office Bldg. Tho't I'd give you a heads-up. I'll be there.
I wrote Lisa back asking for more info on what the meeting is all about. I also told her my firm belief,: "I would like to see self policing, retired seasoned FD's, Cem & Crematory professionals with powers to shut people down, the problem is Funeral Professionals have no place to call when they know of wrong doing, the fed's don't have the money to hire a policeman for every funeral home, cemetery and crematory's driveway." Funeral Service Professional Police elected by the related licencees and related consumer organizations of the state and funded through licensing fees.
In a message dated 4/18/02 11:44:36 PM, Lisa Carlson wrote back:
Dodd's office wants a look at what the ideal would be, where we are now, and what it would take to get there from here. I've written a commentary with five major points of concern:
* Funeral Rule--get Congressional backing to strengthen and expand to all
* Telemarketing Rule--apply do-not-call laws to in-state calls, too, not just out-of-state ones (because of aggressive preneed sellers)
* Limit preneed selling to after 6 mos. after a death and a one-year full refundability cooling off period after that (unless for Medicaid). Require consumer brochure handed out and explicit disclosure of how much will be refunded after cooling off period. (Of course, I think it should be 100%, but disclosure may be all we can hope for.)
* Pass a law that gives families the right to witness a cremation or burial or to file the death certificate
* Regulate the distribution of donated organs and tissues.
That's it in a nut-shell. Don't know that others will be all that interested unless something really comes from this, like pending legislation.
cya,
Lisa
Next I wrote NFDA's Pres. Bob Vandenbergh he will be at Dodd's hearings and later on Friday NFDA sends us
In a message dated 4/19/02 5:20:55 PM, fspano@nfda.org writes:
Brookfield, Wis.- The National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA) will be represented at a congressional hearing on funeral service to be held in Washington, D.C., on April 26, 2002. The hearing is being held by Senator Christopher Dodd, D-Conn., chairman of the Subcommittee on Children and Families of the Senate Health, Education, Labor and Pensions Committee.
The purpose of the hearing is to explore what role, if any, the federal government can play to standardize the various state laws governing assorted components of funeral service, including preneed, cremation and cemetery issues. Dodd also wants to explore such disparate topics as DNA services offered to families by funeral homes, and Internet sales of funeral goods and merchandise.
"NFDA is extremely committed to protecting consumers and strengthen their trust and confidence in the funeral service profession," said NFDA Chief Executive Officer Christine Pepper. "We are fully prepared to participate in this hearing and to discuss the important issues facing the funeral service profession."
Although not all of the details of the hearing are confirmed, NFDA was told there will be two panels composed of consumers, consumer advocacy representatives, a funeral service representative (NFDA), the Federal Trade Commission and a state regulator.
NFDA At-large Representative Diana Kurz, Newington Memorial Funeral Home, Newington, Conn., will present NFDA's testimony at this hearing. President Robert Vandenbergh, along with other NFDA Executive Board members, also will be present at this important public event.
NFDA is headquartered in Brookfield, Wis., and has an office in Washington, D.C. It is the oldest and largest funeral service association, serving about 13,500 members.
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Funeral Service Hearing
NFDA Gearing up to Represent the Profession Next Week. The Subcommittee on Children and Families of the Senate Health, Education, Labor and Pensions Committee, chaired by Senator Christopher Dodd, D-Conn., is holding a hearing on funeral service on April 26, 2002. The hearing will explore what role, if any, the federal government can play to standardize the various state laws governing assorted components of funeral service, including preneed, cremation and cemetery issues. Dodd also wants to explore such disparate topics as DNA services offered to families by funeral homes, Internet sales of funeral goods and merchandise, and the sale of body parts.
While the details of the hearing are not yet confirmed, NFDA knows there will be two panels composed of consumer advocates, consumers who have had a bad experience with a funeral home, crematory or cemetery representatives, a funeral service representative (NFDA), the Federal Trade Commission and a state regulator. Specific groups or individuals have not been confirmed for these panels except for NFDA At-large Representative Diana Kurz, a Connecticut native, who will present NFDA's testimony at this hearing. NFDA is preparing Kurz for the hearing and will aggressively work to get its message out to the media. President Robert Vandenbergh, along with other NFDA Executive Board members, also will be present at this important public event.
In a message dated 4/28/02 9:15:34 AM, Joe.Weigel@batesville.com writes:
Dear John:
At the April 26 hearing of the Senate Health, Education, Labor and Pensions Committee's Subcommittee on Children and Families, chaired by Sen. Christopher Dodd, there was a good deal of discussion about what consumers can and should expect from funeral service.
The hearing included some very emotional testimony, but underneath the emotion we at Batesville were struck by how little substantive disagreement there was among those representing consumers and those representing funeral service.
We all agree that consumers deserve to know what they're buying when they purchase funeral products and services; that they deserve to be free from explicit or implicit coercion; that they deserve protections to prevent recurrences of tragedies like the recent crematory incident in Georgia.
During the hearing, Batesville Casket was specifically criticized by subcommittee witness Barbara Osborne for the marketing and performance of one of our protective caskets and we disagree with how Ms. Osborne portrayed the facts of this case. Yet we agree with Ms. Osborne that funeral directors should help consumers know what protective caskets are and what they're not.
We have consistently marketed our protective caskets as being designed to resist gravesite elements for a specific period of time. We have informed funeral directors that neither protective nor non-protective caskets are designed to prevent decomposition of human remains. And we continue to stand by our products, their benefits and our claims about them for one simple reason: they are meaningful to consumers.
This does not mean protective caskets are for everyone - no single product or feature is right for every family in every situation and Batesville also provides a variety of non-protective metal caskets as well as our line of hardwood caskets. However, Batesville offers protective caskets to meet the needs of families who find it a meaningful feature when a loved one dies.
At Batesville Casket Company, nothing is more important to us that to be able to work with funeral directors to help honor families when someone close to them has died. We know funeral service is a profession that touches people at some of the most sensitive moments in their lives and we take that responsibility very, very seriously. Everything we do is built to assist funeral directors meet that responsibility.
If you review the transcript from April 26, it seems clear that the testimony on April 26 related to the performance of our product was really about the fact that when people die, their remains decompose. Our protective caskets were not developed as a means of altering the natural decomposition process. It is a difficult and sometimes unsettling fact of nature that no product or company or law or regulation can prevent.
There are many things, however, that funeral service and regulators, working together, can do to continue to ensure consumers have the protection they need when they come to our industry at a time of need. Sen. Dodd's April 26 hearings were evidence that we have a solid foundation of agreement on many issues to begin to take those steps.
Best regards,
Joe Weigel
Batesville Casket Company
In a message dated 4/19/02 1:18:30 PM, Betty in Ohio writes:
I have found that several cemetries are requiring it as a "must" that in order to purchase a crypt, part of the requirements you are agreeing to: " The deceased must be embalmed"
I have also found cemeteries that have no such requirement. The use of the Mausoleums that are making it a requirement, are now putting it in writing - when in fact, when the purchase was made years ago - there was no such requirement.
I enclose the link to the informative article BONES, BUGS, AND BATESVILLE http://www.funerals.org/alert/bates.htm for more detailed information about embalming and retardation (NOT!) of decay.
It is my opinion that the only requirement for this added cost to the family, is more sales for others (as many trade owners own more than one department)- as embalming does not prevent decay or order past a few days.
Is there any documentation that has EVER been done to prove different? Is this some practice that has spread into all the states? Does anyone else find this large added expense appalling (seeing how it serves no extended purpose)? In fact, I have found people saying "As long as I have to have the embalming, I might as well have a viewing." Adding a few hundred more for the use of that service as well. This is the intent that I see, nothing more than more sales. If anyone can show me documentation that proves these wrong, I sure would like to see it.
Regards,. Betty
In a message dated 4/11/02 4:16:29 PM, Mike in Massachusetts sends us:
The Bulletin Newspaper, West Roxbury & Roslindale Massachusetts
http://www.westroxburybulletin.com/
End of life decisions
can reflect life By Kate Remelt
Bulletin staff
There are two events in life that we all have in common, we are all born and we will all die. End of life issues are not a topic people typically think or talk about. When the time comes to care for a loved one, State Representative David T. Donnelly has found a way to ensure there is a reliable source of information available.
On Tuesday, April 9, Donnelly along with other members of the newly formed Massachusetts End of Life Commission launched the website www.endoflifecommission.org.
"The goal of the website is to provide a comprehensive resource guide pertaining to end of life issues," Donnelly said.
The resource guide was developed based on a comprehensive survey mailed to over 600 agencies and organizations across the state. After the website has collected feedback from visitors, the guide will be published in a print version in June of 2002, according to a press release sent from the End of Life Commission.
Local funeral directors and cemetery staff are in support of the website and hope it will give people the opportunity to educate themselves on end of life issues.
"Things have changed so much in just the past few years," Brian McKinney, funeral director for Lawler Funeral home in West Roxbury said. "Services have become more personal and less standard. You can do basically anything now."
Part of this change in funerals means less formal funeral services, but McKinney says not only have funerals become more informal, but the caskets as well.
"There is more of a selection now," McKinney says. "We have them for veterans with an American Flag, or if a person wants they can even have a golf club emblem on the casket."
In order to make the funeral planning process less intimidating, Lawler has also redecorated their casket room.
"Walking into a room filled with full-size caskets can be overwhelming," McKinney said. "We offer a casket wall with just the corner of the casket showing. A person can pull out a drawer to feel the fabric or see a picture. We also used lighter colors in the room, that helps."
When asked what people should know about planning a funeral, McKinney was quick to respond, "pre-arrangement."
"People are not always aware they can pre-plan or even pre-pay their funerals," McKinney said. "Costs are rising. Not only with funerals, but cemetery cost as well. Just to open a pre-owned plot can cost up to $1,500."
The average cost of a cemetery plot can vary, according to Thomas P. Daly, director of St. Michael's Cemetery.
"The cost of a single person plot can start at $1,000," Daly said. "A two person plot can go anywhere from $3,000 to $4,000."
James Cassaboom, business manager for Boston Catholic Cemeteries says prepaying pays off in the end.
"Not only are you saving your loved ones from an extra ordeal, you are saving money," Cassaboom said. "A person can come in, buy a plot, and be charged today's rate. Most do not use the plot for many years so you don't have to worry about a price increase."
Brendan Higgins, Director of Higgins Funeral Home in Roslindale, says pre-planning is helpful when it comes to funerals as well.
"By pre-planning a funeral, the family knows they are giving their loved one what they want," Higgins said. "If a family knows we have already spoken to the loved one, they feel more at-ease."
Higgins agrees funerals are becoming more personal and informal.
"It used to be calling hours were always the same," Higgins said. "Now, people are changing them to fit around loved ones more and they are becoming more involved with the service itself."
In a message dated 4/8/02 4:35:52 PM, Bob in West Virginia & 4/8/02 5:05:59 PM, Mike in Massachusetts writes:
Rats infest bodies in L.A. coroner's storage unit
As reported in Los Angeles, California
Rats chewed on a dozen bodies in a makeshift storage unit behind the coroner's office, officials said Monday. Some of the bodies had been stored since 1995 in the refrigerated, converted garage where 61 corpses were being kept because there was no room in the main lab, coroner's spokesman David Campbell said.
He confirmed the rat infestation after KMEX-TV of Los Angeles reported over the weekend that rats had eaten parts of several bodies. Coroner's employees discovered the rodent problem in late February, Campbell said.
Damage included disfiguration to the head, face, neck, toes, hands and groin areas of the bodies, KMEX reported. Campbell would not provide details on the extent of the trauma, but said in some cases the rats gnawed only on the material in which the corpses were wrapped.
The garage is used for long-term storage of bodies that have not been identified, or whose relatives have been unable to afford burial or cremation, Campbell said.
Coroner's officials have notified relatives about the damaged corpses, Campbell said. Names were not released. The rats may have flocked to the building after the demolition of earthquake-damaged buildings in the nearby Los Angeles County-USC Medical Center, Campbell said.
Exterminators were called to eliminate the rats and workers sealed a gap discovered between a wall and the floor. Campbell said. In addition, workers Monday were improving the seal on the garage door.
Since the infestation was discovered, "there has been nothing to indicate any new activity," Campbell said. The coroner's office, which investigates about 20,000 deaths a year in a county of 9 million residents, is currently storing about 385 bodies
In a message dated 4/18/02 10:50:30 AM, A. Subscriber writes:
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Families Keep Cornea Rights, Court Decides
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Transplants: Appeals panel reverses decision under '83 law, which said coroner needn't ask permission of families.
By HENRY WEINSTEIN
TIMES STAFF WRITER
April 18 2002
A federal appeals court in San Francisco has ruled that the Los Angeles County coroner should have obtained the permission of parents in California and Pennsylvania before harvesting and selling the corneas of their dead sons.
The complete article can be viewed at:
http://www.latimes.com/la-000027663apr18.story
Visit Latimes.com at http://www.latimes.com
In a message dated 4/18/02 2:59:36 PM, Mike in Massachusestts writes:
New York Daily News Online | News and Views | City Beat | WTC Site May Get Tomb of Unknowns
http://www.mostnewyork.com/today/News_and_Views/City_Beat/a-148041.asp
WTC Site May Get Tomb of Unknowns
By GREG GITTRICH
Daily News Staff Writer tomb of unknown victims &emdash; holding the unidentified remains of hundreds killed Sept. 11 &emdash; is a top contender to become a centerpiece of the permanent memorial at the World Trade Center site.The proposal &emdash; reminiscent of the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery in Virginia &emdash; has been steadily gaining favor at meetings among victims' relatives, Mayor Bloomberg and the Lower Manhattan Development Corp. officials, family members said yesterday.
The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier may serve as a model for the WTC memorial.
"Creating this unmarked grave will bring reverence and sanctity to the memorial," said Michael Cartier, whose brother, James, an electrician, died in the terror attacks. "It would be the heart of the memorial."Monica Iken, whose husband died in the attacks and hasn't been found, said the proposed Sept. 11 tomb would pay homage to the victims whose bodies haven't been recovered."Those not identified should be respected and have something separate to identify them," said Iken, the founder of September's Mission, a group of victims' families. "I don't have anything. I'm in the same predicament a lot of families are in."Christy Ferer, Bloomberg's liaison to the victims' families, said many proposals are being considered for the memorial, and city officials cautioned it will be years before a memorial is constructed.But Ferer, whose husband was killed in the attacks, added, "The basic concept, which everyone agrees to, is that those remains will be part of some memorial."Few Victims ID'dAlthough the piles of debris at Ground Zero are quickly disappearing, only 968 of the 2,815 people killed in the attacks have been identified.As the recovery process winds down, the hopes of grieving families have shifted to the medical examiner's office, where lab technicians are trying to match DNA from recovered body parts to the list of the dead.Not everyone will be identified.More than half the 19,132 bone and tissue fragments recovered are damaged and cannot be matched to a victim. Officials said it appears no more than 1,000 people will be identified through DNA &emdash; leaving many lost without an identifiable trace.If the tomb is created, many details will have to be worked out, including how to store the unidentified remains so they can be tested again as DNA technology advances. In 1998, the remains of the unknown Vietnam veteran interred at Arlington were exhumed and identified as those of Air Force 1st Lt. Michael Joseph Blassie."Whatever is done with these remains will be done with the greatest respect," said Jonathan Greenspun, commissioner of the city's community assistance unit. "We will take into account all the religious beliefs and sensitivities involved."Meanwhile, officials said Ground Zero could soon be encircled by a viewing wall that would allow people to gaze upon the World Trade Center site during its rebuilding.The Port Authority and the Lower Manhattan Development Corp. are considering putting up an enclosure made of galvanized steel, with sections cut out for people to look through, officials said yesterday. The wall could be up by early summer."The viewing wall will enable passersby to observe the site, reflect and pay their respects, while retaining the dignity of this hallowed ground," said Mollie Fullington, a spokeswoman for Gov. Pataki.With Paul H.B. Shin and Emily Gest
Thursday, April 18, 2002
DALTON, Georgia. -- The House of Overstreet Mortuary permanently closed its doors here Tuesday in response to an eviction notice. Frances and Stephen Swift secured a Magistrate Court order March 26 to evict Dr. C. Eugene Overstreet and his equipment in lieu of $9,348.22 in overdue rent, according to court records.
The court order was secured by Dalton attorney Robert McCurry on behalf of Stephen Swift's company, TAB. Mr. McCurry and Dr. Overstreet could not be reached for comment Wednesday. As a result of the eviction, the scheduled viewing of a body was postponed Tuesday, and the body was transferred to a funeral home Dr. Overstreet operates in Chattanooga, said Whitfield County Coroner Bobby Dixon. "We gave the permit to move the body across the state line. I waited on the family and talked to them," she said. Property was tagged and vehicles were impounded, officials said.
Dalton Police officers were called in to investigate after items that appeared to be drug-related objects were discovered, said Lt. Mike Key of the Dalton Police Department. "The constables came across some items that they were suspicious of," Lt. Key said. "We are not sure what it is. There was an older-type device and residue-type material. We are sending the items off for testing." He said the investigation will continue. "We don't know what it's all about right now," Lt. Key said. Dr. Overstreet has two pending civil lawsuits filed against him in Magistrate Court for unpaid bills. Sale Auto Mall of Dalton is seeking $5,304, and Family Lincoln Mercury of Dalton is seeking $2,222, according to Magistrate Court records.
In a message dated 4/8/02 6:55:09 PM, Mike in Boston writes:
Doonan, John J.
http://www.legacy.com/bostonglobe/LegacySubPage2.asp?Page=LifeStory&PersonID=286771
Of Malden, suddenly, April 7. Beloved husband of Jean (Walsh) Doonan. Son of Marie (Curtin) Doonan of Malden and the late William C. Doonan. Father of Jessica M. Doonan and Jane M. Doonan of Malden. Brother of William C. Jr. of San Francisco, CA, Diane Pillone of NJ, Lorna McCracken of NJ, Paul Doonan of Chelmsford, Gerald Doonan of Bellingham and Dr. Joyce Doonan of Whyteville, VA. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. Funeral from the O. P. Doonan Funeral Home, 7 Wicklow St., MALDEN (Rte 28 1 light So. of Rte 60) on Thursday April 11 at 9:30am. Funeral Mass at the Immaculate Conception Church Malden at 10:30am. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours at the Funeral Home on Wed. 2-4 & 7-9pm. In Lieu of flowers donations in John's memory to American Cancer Society 30 Speen St. Framingham, MA 01701. Director/Owner-Doonan Funeral Home.
In a message dated 4/12/02 12:30:53 PM, TJ in Massachusetts writes:
John,
Massachusetts funeral director and funeral home owner John J. Doonan passed away. Thought you could post it in the next update.His obituary from the Boston Globe follows.
Take Care,
TJ in Melrose, MA.
John J. Doonan
Of Malden, suddenly, April 7. Beloved husband of Jean (Walsh) Doonan. Son of Marie (Curtin) Doonan of Malden and the late William C. Doonan. Father of Jessica M. Doonan and Jane M. Doonan of Malden. Brother of William C. Jr. of San Francisco, CA, Diane Pillone of NJ, Lorna McCracken of NJ, Paul Doonan of Chelmsford, Gerald Doonan of Bellingham and Dr. Joyce Doonan of Whyteville, VA. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. Funeral from the O. P. Doonan Funeral Home, 7 Wicklow St., MALDEN (Rte 28 1 light So. of Rte 60) on Thursday April 11 at 9:30am. Funeral Mass at the Immaculate Conception Church Malden at 10:30am. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours at the Funeral Home on Wed. 2-4 & 7-9pm. In Lieu of flowers donations in John's memory to American Cancer Society 30 Speen St. Framingham, MA 01701. Director/Owner-Doonan Funeral Home.
Published in the Boston Globe from 4/8/2002 - 4/9/2002.
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In a message dated 4/18/02 8:36:45 AM, Mike in Massachusetts writes:
Arthur J. Scott Jr., Lawrence, Massachusetts funeral director
DERRY, N.H. -- Arthur J. "Scottie" Scott Jr., 64, a longtime funeral director in Lawrence, Mass., died yesterday morning at home after a short battle with cancer.Mr. Scott began running Arthur J. Scott Funeral Home after the death of his father in 1968."He was just a great guy to his people, especially to the French community in Lawrence," said Fred Allen, a longtime friend and funeral director at Cataudella Funeral Home in Methuen, Mass. "He started in the community when a lot of people couldn't speak English and he took care of them."Richard Schaufenbil, a funeral director at Pollard Funeral Home in Methuen, said Mr. Scott was well-respected in the community."He's the type of guy who would take his shirt off his back and give it to you, a nice, nice man," said Mr. Schaufenbil, who knew Mr. Scott for about 15 years and was his next-door neighbor. "He was always ready to do something for somebody and never expected anything back."Mr. Scott, who was diagnosed with lung cancer in November, continued to work at the funeral home until February and continued to work from home until March, said Kathy McGurren, who worked with Mr. Scott at the funeral home for the last three years. "He was a hard-working, dedicated funeral director, was concerned with others and always willing to help," said Tyler Douglas, a funeral director at Douglas & Johnson Funeral Home in Salem.Before working as a funeral director, Mr. Scott entered the 45th Recruit Troop of the Massachusetts State Police Academy in December 1962. He served as a state trooper in Leominster, Athol and Andover.Born in Lawrence, he graduated from Sacred Heart Grammar School and Mt. St. Charles Academy in Woonsocket, R.I. He also graduated from New England Institute of Anatomy & Embalming in 1959.He was an active "behind the scenes" worker at Sacred Heart Church for several years and was a member of its Holy Name Society."He's just one of these guys who did everything behind the scenes. He liked to do things quietly in his own little way and people appreciated that," Mr. Allen said.Active in Lawrence, Mr. Scott was a member of the Lawrence BPOE Elks Lodge 65, the One Hundred Club of Massachusetts and Holy Family Hospital Men's Guild, where he served on the board of directors and several committees. He was a member of the former Massachusetts State Police Association, a member of the National Funeral Directors Association and the Massachusetts Funeral Directors Association.He was also an honorary member of the Lawrence Fire Department Local 146. He was a former member of the Knights of Columbus 67 in Lawrence and the Lawrence Exchange Club.Mr. Scott had a mobile home at a trailer park on Kings Highway in Hampton Beach, where he entertained friends and family. Ms. McGurren said she remembers Mr. Scott rushing home on Fridays to get home to his wife and to head to the beach."He was up there every weekend," she said. "Every year, he couldn't wait for the day it opened and rued the day it closed down."He leaves wife Jeanne (Champagne) Scott; son Arthur III of Somersworth; daughters Lisa Blue of Goffstown and Karen Scott of Manchester; stepchildren Eric Rousseau of Derry, Brian Rousseau and his wife Lisa of Hopkinton and Kristine and her husband Marc Bellerose of Manchester; brother Raymond of Woburn, Mass.; sisters Theresa Melanson of Lawrence and Denise Scott of North Andover, Mass.; five grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews.Memorials may be made to Sacred Heart Building Fund, 321 S. Broadway, Lawrence, or Derry/Salem Home Health, 15 R E. Broadway, Derry, NH 03038.ARRANGEMENTS: Calling hours are tomorrow from 2 to 8 p.m. at Arthur J. Scott Funeral Home, 298 S. Broadway, Lawrence. A funeral Mass will be Friday at 11 a.m. at Sacred Heart Church, Lawrence. Burial will follow in Sacred Heart Cemetery, Andover.
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DEATH OF RANDALL HOBBS: W. Randall Hobbs, 75, of Greensboro, died Wednesday, April 17, 2002. Funeral services will be held Saturday, April 20, 2002 at 10:00 AM in the Forbis & Dick North Elm Chapel. A graveside service will be held at 2:00 PM on Sunday, April 21, 2002 in the Shiloh Methodist Church Cemetery in Bolton, NC. Mr. Hobbs had previously been a sales representative with Lunsford Wilson Company. Memorial may be made to the Boys and Girls Home of North Carolina, Attention Stuart Sherman, Lake Waccamaw, NC 28450
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In a message dated 4/19/02 10:33:23 AM, Mike in Massachusetts writes:
Raymond Rogers Machado of 82 Hargreaves Ave., Somerset, died Saturday at the Sacred Heart Nursing Home in New Bedford. He was the husband of Diamentina (Lima) Machado. Born in Fall River, son of the late Manuel R. Machado and the late Maria (Oliveira) Machado, he had resided in Somerset since 1955. He was president of the Manuel Rogers & Sons Funeral Home Inc., and was a funeral director since 1937. He graduated from B.M.C. Durfee High School in 1933 and New England Institute of Anatomy & Mortuary Sciences in 1937. He was a member of the National, Massachusetts and Fall River Funeral Directors Associations, Knights of Columbus and Monsignor Augusto Leal Furtado Council of Somerset. He also was a member of the Greater Fall River Area Chamber of Commerce, St. John of God Parish in Somerset and its Holy Name Society. An avid bowler and golfer, he was a member of the Sun Valley and Pine Valley Country Clubs in Rehoboth. Besides his wife, he leaves a son, Kenneth R. Machado of Seekonk; a sister, Edith R. Machado of Fall River; a grandson; and several nieces and nephews. He also was the brother of the late Arthur R., John R., Dorothy R. and Mary R. Machado. Arrangements are by the Manuel Rogers & Sons Funeral Home, 1521 N. Main St., Fall River.
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In a message dated 4/22/02 9:51:00 AM, staff@ncfda.org writes:
Mr. Ernest Lafayette Badgett, 59, of Miller-Boles Funeral Home in Sanford died Saturday, April 20, at his home.
The funeral service will be at 2:00 PM on Wednesday, April 24, at Miller-Boles Funeral Home Chapel, 200 Hawkins Avenue, Sanford, NC. Burial will be at Buffalo Cemetery. The family will receive friends at Miller-Boles Funeral Home from 7:00 - 9:00 PM on Tuesday, April 23, 2002.
He is survived by his wife, Beverly Miller Badgett; daughters, Alyson Badgett and Michelle Rogers, both of Charlotte; a son, Jim Robertson of Killeen Texas; and a granddaughter.
In a message dated 4/10/02 4:15:29 PM, greg_easley@icfa.org writes:
The ICFA 2002 Convention & Exposition offers a fantastic program, April 24-27 in Orlando, Florida. This is going to be the most exciting and educational meeting staged by our industry this year.
In fact, in light of the recent scandals in the industry and potential increases in state and federal regulation, we have just added two new speakers to our Legal & Legislative Session on Saturday, August 27.
*** This will be your best opportunity of the year to get the inside scoop on current regulatory issues facing the industry. ***
Federal Trade Commission Attorney Myra Howard, who supervises enforcement of the Funeral Rule, will discuss "Using Funeral Rule Test Shoppers: Fair Play or Sting?" And Diana Evans, bureau chief for the Florida Bureau of Funeral and Cemetery Services, will give us a state regulator's perspective on "Lessons Learned From the Recent Scandals."
To check out the complete Convention program and access registration forms, visit http://www.icfa.org/AC02.htm or call the ICFA at 1-800-645-7700.
Thanks! I look forward to seeing you soon!
In a message dated 4/8/02 8:42:04 PM, danisard@f4sight.com writes:
Dear Client and Friend of Foresight;
The IRS has issued a very important notice that could save you thousands of
dollars in taxes. The Notice is 2001-76. My staff and I have had several
long conversations with many members of the IRS team that wrote this notice,
studied the history of the notice, and how you can benefit from it. It
allows small businesses, including funeral homes and cemeteries, to file a
corporate tax return on the cash basis. This is the first time in 32 years
it has been legal to do this.
On APRIL 23RD, AT 3 P.M. EDT
2 P.M. CDT
1 P.M. MDT
12 Noon PDT and MST
We are holding a conference via the telephone only for our clients and
friends. We will discuss all aspects of this notice, some case examples,
and some idea's of how to make sure you qualify. The telephone conference
will allow for questions and answers as well, and has a 16 page handout.
Your accountant and financial staff are welcome to be part of the call,
either from your location or from their own office. The call is expected to
take 1 hour or less, depending upon questions. If you want to register your
accountant let us know at the time of registration. Telephone conference
calls are easy, just dial into the conference center with the i.d. we give
you at the appointed hour, listen, and ask questions. You can have multiple
people listening from your phone with a speaker phone. Your accountant can
call in from their office.
The cost to be on the line, which includes the phone line charges and
handout is a $75 registration if signed up in advance. We have applied to
the Academy for continuing education approval and will let you know if it is
approved. Registration within 48 hours is $95. Registration is via credit
card, so when you phone in for registering, we can take your information at
that time. We have a limited number of telephone lines, so it is first come
first serve.
If you have already filed your tax return, you can file an amended return.
Believe me, this is the greatest change to funeral home accounting in my 20
years of advising funeral home owners and cemeterians. One client, a 400
call operation, that has made the change has saved over $150,000 in taxes.
A 100 call operation went from owing $22,000 of tax to owing nothing. And
this is not a 1 time benefit. Each year thereafter we expect the client
will save about 10% to 15% of their expected tax! And most importantly, it
doesn't cost you anything to qualify!
It doesn't matter if you are an S corporation or C corporation! I know this
sounds too good to be true. It is too good to be overlooked.
Be on the call. You will get smarter and your tax bill will decrease this
year and every year thereafter!
Call us to register at 800-426-0165 and ask for Cate or Linda. Or you can
send us a reply e-mail and we can handle it via e-mail. If you don't want
to be getting e-mail from us, just send a reply e-mail with the word
"REMOVE" in the subject area.
This is only for clients and friends. If you have a friend of yours that
you really want to include, ask before inviting them, there is a limit of
lines we can use and we want to use them for clients and friends first.
Dan Isard
President
Foresight Communications, Inc.
In a message dated 4/17/02 4:31:43 PM, Mike in Massachusetts writes:
Westwood Village Memorial Park cemetery, which houses the remains of such high-profile celebrities as Marilyn Monroe, Carroll O'Connor, Truman Capote, Frank Zappa, Burt Lancaster and Dean Martin, is seeking a special zoning variance allowing construction of more than 2,000 above-ground crypts in what neighbors complain are "movie theater-sized" buildings.
The 20-foot- (6 metre-) high crypts would tower over neighboring homes, and would be built directly on property borders, without the landscaped buffer zones normally required by law, according to a preliminary proposal brought before city officials at a hearing last week.
"They have decided we need a tenement of bodies hanging over our back yard ... they are even planning on putting an elevator in it," said Tamar Hoffs, whose property would be directly affected. "The property is landlocked so they can't build out, so they think they are going to build up," Hoffs said.
She added that such a structure would block out sunshine from rows of small, neatly kept homes in the area.
"It's a grotesque disrespect to the families whose loved ones would be buried there. Kids could end up bouncing tennis balls off of mausoleum walls. My kids use any wall they can to play their games," Hoffs said. People attending funerals "would be subjected to the sounds of swimming pools, backyard barbecues."
Los Angeles City Councilman Jack Weiss said, "When people purchased homes in this neighborhood they knew there was a cemetery there but it probably never occurred to anybody that the cemetery could expand by building up. After all it was landlocked.".
Neighbors said the cemetery, which was established in 1888, remained a small family-owned operation catering to movie stars until it was purchased 10 years ago by Houston, Texas-based Service Corp. International (NYSE:SRV).
Service Corp. reported last month that its fourth-quarter loss widened about 28 percent as it took $618 million in charges for restructuring, sales of businesses and other reasons.
The company stands to earn as much as $70 million by boosting capacity from its current 1,126 casket spaces to 3,089, the Los Angeles Times reported on Monday.
"It's a high-rent cemetery in a high-rent neighborhood. I would expect there would be a financial motive involved relating to the proposal," Weiss said.
Greg Bolton, a spokesman for the funeral company, would not comment on the project except to confirm that Service Corp. was seeking approval from the city to move ahead with expansion.
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Write to: mailto:wireless@icfa.org .
IN THIS EDITION:
INDUSTRY NEWS
ICFA Files Comments on FTC Telemarketing Sales Rule Proposals
OSHA Announces Use of Guidelines to Reduce Ergonomic-Related Injuries
U.S. Veterans Department to Set Standards for Cemetery Appearance
ICFA NEWS
Women's Forum Names 2002 ICFAU Scholarship Winners
State, Federal Officials to Address Convention Legislative Session
April Product of the Month: 'How to Sell Cemetery Property Before Need'
ICFA News Page Expanded with Comprehensive Industry News Updates
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INDUSTRY NEWS
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ICFA FILES COMMENTS ON FTC TELEMARTKETING SALES RULE PROPOSALS
Yesterday the ICFA filed comments with the Federal Trade Commission in
Washington, D.C., concerning the FTC's proposed amendments to its
Telemarketing Sales Rule (TSR). The ICFA has supported the TSR since its
enactment in 1995 as an effective regulation that protects consumers from
abusive and fraudulent telemarketers without imposing unreasonable burdens on
legitimate businesses. The TSR exempts calls where nothing is purchased but
instead is followed by a face-to-face meeting between the seller and the
potential buyer, as is typical with preneed calls.
The FTC proposes retaining the Rule's face-to-face exemption, but recommends
five amendments. The most serious proposal would require that exempt callers
could not contact consumers who place their home phone number on a national
Do Not Call List -- a project that is the most sweeping amendment in the TSR.
The ICFA asserts that applying the Do Not Call requirement "to the
face-to-face exemption would, for all practical purposes, eliminate the
distinction between defined 'telemarketing' under the TSR, where the purpose
of the call is to sell something by phone, and the face-to-face exemption,
whereby nothing is sold by phone." The complete ICFA comments to the FTC can
be downloaded at
http://www.icfa.org/pdf/tsr_comments.pdf.
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OSHA ANNOUNCES USE OF GUIDELINES TO REDUCE ERGONOMIC-RELATED INJURIES
The U.S. Labor Department's Occupational Safety and Health Administration
(OSHA) recently announced its plan to reduce ergonomic injuries through a
combination of industry-targeted guidelines, tough enforcement efforts of
hazardous industries, workplace training and research. OSHA noted that the
rates of ergonomic-related injuries in the workplace, known as
musculoskeletal disorders (MSDs), have been declining over the past 10 years.
Since guidelines are more flexible than standards, which are in effect
statutes, the guidelines can be developed quickly and easily changed as new
information becomes available.
The ICFA has participated in the OSHA ergonomics proceedings and urged the
agency to enact common sense approaches to avoiding and reducing workplace
injuries. A complicated regulation enacted in the closing weeks of the
Clinton Administration was criticized by the ICFA and eventually abolished by
Congress and President Bush. The OSHA news releases on the Ergonomics
guidelines can be viewed by visiting
http://www.osha.gov/ergonomics/newsreleases.html .
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U.S. VETERANS DEPARTMENT TO SET STANDARDS FOR CEMETERY APPEARANCE
The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) recently announced the publication of
a series of reports on improving the appearance of the VA's 120 national
cemeteries. The first report, "Cemetery Standards of Appearance," reviews
items such as location, design, monuments, trees, headstones, lawns and
flowers as attributes of outstanding cemeteries.
The VA contracted with a private firm to examine the appearance of veterans
and civilian cemeteries around the world. One goal of the study was to define
the characteristics of the "finest cemeteries in the world." Other reports in
the series due out later this year include "Future Burial Needs" and
"National Shrine Commitment Facility Condition Assessment." According to the
VA, the study will be used "to ensure that each national cemetery is
maintained as a national shrine." For more information, visit the VA Web site
at . http://www.va.gov .
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ICFA NEWS
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WOMEN'S FORUM NAMES 2002 ICFAU SCHOLARSHIP WINNERS
The ICFA Women's Forum has named two recipients of its ICFA University
scholarships: Giselle Tessier-Corder, general manager at Santa Rosa Memorial
Park in Santa Rosa, California, and Katherine Scimmi, general manager and
bereavement facilitator at McKenzie & Blundy Funeral Home & Cremation Centre
in Sarnia, Ontario.
The recipients each will receive a full scholarship to ICFA University, July
19-24 at the University of Memphis in Memphis, Tennessee. ICFAU is an
intensive educational program for cemetery and funeral home managers, owners,
operators and prospective managers.
The scholarships were sponsored by eight industry suppliers: American
Cemetery Supplies Inc., BLP Bronze International, Crematory Manufacturing &
Service, Ferno Washington Inc., Granit-Bronz - Cold Spring Granite Memorial
Group Inc., Matthews International Corp., Trigard Vaults and Wilbert Funeral
Services Inc.
Complete program and registration forms for the 2002 ICFA University are
available at http://www.icfa.org/ICFAU02.htm or by calling 1-800-645-7700. An
application for the 2003 ICFAU Scholarship can be downloaded at
http://www.icfa.org/pdf/icfau03.pdf .
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STATE, FEDERAL OFFICIALS TO ADDRESS CONVENTION LEGISLATIVE SESSION
The ICFA has added two new, timely speakers to the program for the 2002
Convention & Exposition, April 24-27 in Orlando, Florida. At the Legal &
Legislative Session on Saturday, April 27, Federal Trade Commission Attorney
Myra Howard, who supervises enforcement of the Funeral Rule, will discuss
"Using Funeral Rule Test Shoppers: Fair Play or Sting?" and Diana Evans,
bureau chief for the Florida Bureau of Funeral and Cemetery Services, will
give us a state regulator's perspective on "Lessons Learned From the Recent
Scandals."
This will be your best opportunity of the year to get the inside scoop on
current regulatory concerns facing the industry. To view the complete
Convention program and access registration forms, visit
http://www.icfa.org/AC02.htm or call the ICFA at 1-800-645-7700.
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APRIL PRODUCT OF THE MONTH:
'HOW TO SELL CEMETERY PROPERTY BEFORE NEED'
For the month of April, the ICFA is discounting "How to Sell Cemetery
Property Before Need," a time-tested preneed sales publication written by
preneed pioneer Harold Brown. Its textbook-style lessons cover each step of
the selling process in detail and include review questions to involve the
reader.
In this new edition, Brown identifies and discusses 14 evolutions in the
industry, including the growing number of women sales counselors, as well as
combination operations, cremation, consolidation, cultural changes and the
Internet. The book is an invaluable training tool for newcomers as well as
experienced counselors trying to reach the next level of sales.
Regular price: $30.50; April price: $25! For additional information, visit
http://www.icfa.org/april.htm. To order, call the ICFA at 1-800-645-7700.
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ICFA NEWS PAGE EXPANDED WITH COMPREHENSIVE INDUSTRY NEWS UPDATES
If you are not using the ICFA News Page to stay current on news items related
to the cemetery and funeral industry, you're not getting the whole picture.
The ICFA News Page (http://www.icfa.org/newspage.htm) now takes you to
sources throughout the world for industry news and updates. It brings you the
most comprehensive selection of funeral service and cemetery news available
anywhere, along with frequently updated general news items related to
national and world events.
The News Page is now the fourth most visited page on the ICFA Web site. Stop
in each day and you'll see why.
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AND MORE É
The ICFA and preneed sales and marketing expert Gary O'Sullivan, CCE, are
teaming up in May 2002 to offer a highly economical one-day seminar for sales
counselors in four cities. "Selling Skills to Increase Your Selling Power"
will be held in Oakland, California; Del Mar, California; Indianapolis,
Indiana; and McLean, Virginia. For a description of the seminar and the exact
locations and dates, visit http://www.icfa.org/osullivan02.htm or call
1-800-645-7700.
The ICFA has spearheaded the Music License Coalition to obtain discounted
music licensing for industry members. The goal of the Coalition is to offer a
discount price of $185 annually for licensing from BMI, ASCAP and SESAC
beginning January 1, 2003. Membership in the Coalition is free and is not
tied to membership in any other industry organization. For more information
or to join the Coalition, visit http://www.icfa.org/music/ or call
1-800-645-7700.
The ICFA has announced the winners of its 2001 KIP (Keeping It Personal)
Awards, recognizing the best in personalization in the cemetery and funeral
industry. A complete list of winners and additional information on the KIP
Awards Program is available at http://www.icfa.org/kip.htm.
Need a labor relations and employment law attorney? Check out ICFA's benefit
program offering free telephone legal consultations at
http://www.icfa.org/pepperman.htm .
The ICFA has published its 2001-2002 Buyer's Guide and Membership Directory,
an invaluable industry resource offering complete listings of ICFA member
cemeteries, funeral homes and allied members; industry suppliers;
international, national, regional and state associations; state funeral
boards and cemetery regulators; individuals working in the industry; and
more. A must for all key staff, copies are available for purchase at a member
price of just $25. For information or to order, call the ICFA at
1-800-645-7700.
The ICFA uses a national media placement agency to distribute an ongoing
series of newspaper articles and radio announcements with positive preneed
and memorialization messages. Placements to date have been highly successful,
reaching hundreds of markets throughout the country. For more information and
to view copies of the actual releases, visit http://www.icfa.org/media.htm.
ICFA members can establish their own Web sites for just $14.95 per month,
with no up-front fees. FuneralAssistant.com provides complete Web site
design, up to six pages; monthly site hosting; assignment of a Keyword that
directs Internet customers to the site; and Web site updates. For more
information, visit http://www.icfa.org/WebBenefit.htm .
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In a message dated 4/15/02 11:12:02 PM, Armand in Mortuary Affairs writes:
John, for those of your readers demanding more Federal Intervention, be enlightened by this little story, if the death care professionals cannot correct the problem, the lesson here is don't look to uncle Sam to fix it for you. I cannot confirm or deny it is a true story.
Once upon a time, the government had a vast scrap yard in the middle of a desert. Congress said, "Someone might steal from it at night." So, they created a night watchman post and hired a guy. Then Congress said, "How does the watchman do his job without instruction?" So, they created a planning department and hired two people, one person to write the instructions and one person to do time studies."
Then Congress said, "How will we know the night watchman is doing his tasks correctly?" So, they created a Quality Control department and hired two people: one to do the studies, and one to write the reports. Then Congress said, "How are these people going to get paid?" So, they created the following positions: a time keeper and a payroll officer, and hired two people.
Then Congress said, "Who will be accountable for all these people?" So, they created an administrative section and hired three people: an Administrative Officer, Assistant Administrative Officer and a legal secretary.
Then Congress said, "We have had this command operation for one year and we are $18,000
over budget. We must cut back overall costs."
So--you guessed it--they laid off the night watchman!
Death Care Professionals should be Careful what they wish for.
PLEASE PASS THIS ALONG TO ALL!
I am in the works now to put together the 1st Funeral Director, Staff and Friends Night Out to be held on Saturday May 4th at 6:30 PM @ Luckys Lounge and Restaurant in South Boston (355 Congress Street @ A. Street (617) 357.5825)
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Luckys is a nice place that just opened in the new and upcoming area of South Boston, it is also close to the Expressway(93) & Downtown area. It is actually just past the Milk Bottle and Childrens Museum on Congress St. They usually have a Jazz band or other mellow band playing. It has both a Restaurant Side and a Lounge side. So pass this along to anyone in the business or anyone that might be interested in a night out, as all are welcome to enjoy a fun time and a few laughs. Please email me if you are going to go or you know of how many people are interested in going so i can call the Manager and researve a section if needed. Since this is the first gathering of FD's, i will wait on ordering food and evryone can order on thier own if they choose. (unless i can get a Sponser like Batesville, wilbert or milso to sponser it down the road ha ha ha ha ha ) Keep in mind LUCKYS has no sign outside and it is downstairs @ 355 Congress Street. It is a brick building like a warehouse. (home of the old stuarts ) If you have any questions or comments please send them along to me.
Mike Flynn (mflynn6705@aol.com)
(617) 828.7856
F.J. Higgins Funeral Home
Roslindale Square
From North: I-93 S. to High and Congress St., exit 23. At end of the ramp, make your first left onto High St. Go left at second light onto Congress St. Go two blocks, cross the bridge, and the Childrens Museum will be on your left. Continue to A street and Lucky's will be on your right downstairs.
From South: I-93 to Downtown/Mass Pike/Chinatown exit. Bear left towards downtown Boston. At the end of the ramp, turn left onto Kneeland Street. Go one block and make a right onto Surface Street. Go several lights, just pass the Federal Reserve Building, and make a right onto Congress Street. Cross the bridge, and the Childrens Museum will be on your left. Continue to A street and Lucky's will be on your right downstairs.
From West: I-90 (Mass Pike) East to end , take Downtown Boston/South Station exit. At the end of the ramp, go straight onto Surface Street. Go several lights, just pass the Federal Reserve Building, and make a right onto Congress Street. Cross the bridge, and the Childrens Museum will be on your left. Continue to A street and Lucky's will be on your right downstairs.
n a message dated 4/10/02 5:17:01 PM, Diane in Pennsylvania writes:
An elderly spinster called the lawyer's office and told the receptionist she wanted to see the lawyer about having a will prepared. The receptionist suggested they set up an appointment for a convenient time for the spinster to come into the office.
The woman replied, "You must understand, I've lived alone all my life, I rarely see anyone, and I don't like to go out. Would it be possible for the lawyer to come to my house?"
The receptionist checked with the attorney who agreed and he went to the spinster's home for the meeting to discuss her estate and the will.
The lawyer's first question was, "Would you please tell me what you have in assets and how you'd like them to be distributed under your will?"
She replied, "Besides the furniture and accessories you see here, I have $40,000 in my savings account at the bank."
"Tell me," the lawyer asked, "how would you like the $40,000 to be distributed?"
The spinster said, "Well, as I've told you, I've lived a reclusive life, people have hardly ever noticed me, so I'd like them to notice when I pass on. I'd like to provide $35,000 for my funeral."
The lawyer remarked, "Well, for $35,000 you will be able to have a funeral that will certainly be noticed and will leave a lasting impression on anyone who may not have taken much note of you! But tell me," he continued, "what would you like to do with the remaining $5,000?"
The spinster replied, "As you know, I've never married, I've lived alone almost my entire life, and in fact I've never slept with a man. Before I die, I'd like you to use the $5,000 to arrange for a man to sleep with me."
"This is a very unusual request," the lawyer said, adding, "but I'll see what I can do to arrange it and get back to you."
That evening, the lawyer was at home telling his wife about the eccentric spinster and her weird request. After thinking about how much she could do around the house with $5,000, and with a bit of coaxing, she got her husband to agree to provide the service himself.
She said, "I'll drive you over tomorrow morning, and wait in the car until you're finished."
The next morning, she drove him to the spinster's house and waited while he went into the house. She waited for over an hour, but her husband didn't come out. So she blew the car horn.
Shortly, the upstairs bedroom window opened, the lawyer stuck his head out and yelled, "Pick me up tomorrow! She's going to let the County bury her!"
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In a message dated 4/15/02 12:54:21 PM, Dennis in New Jersey writes:
The Cardiologist's Funeral
A well known cardiologist died, and an elaborate funeral was planned. A huge heart covered in flowers stood behind the casket during the service.
Following the eulogy, the heart opened, and the casket rolled inside.
The heart then closed sealing the doctor in the beautiful heart forever.
At that point one of the mourners burst into laughter.
When confronted, he said, " I'm sorry, I was just thinking of my own funeral.......I'm a gynecologist."
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In a message dated 4/19/02 3:18:56 PMstaff@ncfda.org writes:
NORTH CAROLINA FUNERAL DIRECTORS ASSOCIATION
919-876-7886 * 800-616-2332 * FAX: 919-876-5382
http://www.ncfda.org
E-LINE FEBRUARY 262002
DECISION REST WITH THE COURT: We are awaiting a decision of the
Mecklingburg Superior Court regarding actions brought by the NC Board of
Mortuary Science against Crown Memorial Park of Pikeville. At the heart of
the issues is the question of whether one must be a funeral director to sell
preneed. The case was heard this week in Charlotte and the Superior Court
Judge is expected to render a decision in the near future. This is a
significant case and NCFDA and our attorney Jon Carr will be following this
matter.
LAWMAKERS RETURN MAY 28: Following the longest session in historythe NC
General Assembly is returning to Raleigh for the 3short session2 on May 28,
2002. A number of funeral related matters are proposed. Given the current
state budget concernsone can only speculate on the chance of new
legislation emerging.
MEMBERS NEED TO VIEW STATE BOARD WEB SITE: We suggest members check the NC
Board of Mortuary Science web site for some important information. Take a
look at the Attorney General Advisory Letter regarding the withholding of up
to 10% when a consumer transfers a preneed trust contract. You can also
view and download revised preneed forms. Thanks to the State Board for
offering this most timely information.
WHY NOT CONSIDER COMMITTEE SERVICE: In the coming weeks consideration will,
be given to committee assignments for the new association year. If you have
interest in educationmember serviceslegislation or serving on our
political action committeeplease call NCFDA and put your name on the list.
Assume a fully funded funeral prearrangement (trust or insurance), with guaranteed services and merchandise but non-guaranteed cash-advance items. Also assume that the family did not change the arrangements in any way. Prices have just risen due to general increases. At time of need the contract comes up with a shortfall due to a combination of funeral home price increases and a jump in cash-advance costs. How do you calculate the amount of money owed by the family on the non-guaranteed, cash-advance portion of the contract?
A. Take the current cash advance cost, subtract the original amount paid and charge the difference? [Simplified example: Original cemetery opening charge $500.00 which now costs $700.00, charge the family $200.00]
B. Take the original cash advance payment, add a factor for interest accrued on that money, then subtract the higher amount from the current cash advance cost and bill that difference? [Simplified example: Original cemetery opening charge $500.00 which now costs $700.00, preneed account has grown 10% since inception, calculate that $500.00 is now worth $550.00 and charge the family $150.00 for cash-advance increase.]
Follow up:
If you answered "B": How do you calculate the interest accrued on that money?
If you answered "A": Do you disclose to the family that they will not accumulate interest on cash-advance money paid to the funeral home?
In a message dated 4/23/02 11:53:18 AM, CHeaton@ogr.org writes:
NewsRelease
International Order of the Golden Rule Contact: Janet J. Protzel, Director of Communications
13523 Lakefront Drive (800) 637-8030 · Fax: (314) 209-1289 · jprotzel@ogr.org
Bridgeton (St. Louis), MO 63045
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OGR INSTALLS NEW BOARD OF DIRECTORS AT SAN ANTONIO CONFERENCE
MICHAEL G. BUTLER TO SERVE AS PRESIDENT
ST. LOUIS-April 19, 2002-The International Order of the Golden Rule (OGR)
installed its new Board of Directors on March 9, 2002, at the Hyatt Regency
Hotel in San Antonio, Texas. The installation ceremony was held in
conjunction with the association's Annual Conference, which concluded
earlier that afternoon. Michael G. Butler of Livingston-Butler-Volland
Funeral Home in Hastings, Neb., will serve as the new board president during
2002-2003.
"It is my privilege to serve as president of this prestigious organization,"
said Butler. "OGR has a long, distinguished record serving the professional
needs of its many independent member firms. I have great expectations for
the organization's continued growth and future. There is much to be done to
strengthen our profession and meet the challenges that threaten to diminish
it in the eyes of the public. I will do my very best to continue the fine
work of my predecessors who have dedicated themselves to funeral service and
to the independent funeral home."
"Mike is a true advocate for his profession," said Donald P. Hagemann, OGR
executive director. "He represents the best in funeral service and the kind
of member we seek. I know Mike will work long and hard to represent OGR and
our constituents in every way possible during his tenure and that his
presidency will prove to be one of accomplishment and progress."
In his acceptance speech, Butler asked attendees to examine their personal
and professional lives. "We can't ever know what lies ahead, let alone have
power over events beyond our control," Butler said. "We need only look back
to September 11 to know that the present, and the future, are unpredictable.
We should not, however, let that fact prevent us from creating new goals,
executing our plans to the best of our ability and expecting the best
possible results."
As an organization, Butler said OGR must stay vigilant and attentive to the
many aspects of funeral service that concern us, "especially our primary
goal of providing the best life experience to the families we serve. By
doing this, we uphold the honor of our profession and live the credo of this
association, measuring service by the Golden Rule."
(more)
OGR Installs New Board of Directors - add one
April 19, 2002
Michael G. Butler is a second-generation funeral director. In addition to
being co-owner of Livingston-Butler-Volland Funeral Home in Hastings, he is
co-owner of two other firms in Nebraska, Apfel-Butler-Geddes Funeral Home in
Grand Island and Merten-Butler Mortuary in Blue Hill. Butler has been a
member of OGR since 1959 and has sat on the Board of Directors of since
1997. His firm was a recipient of OGR's Public Approval Award (now Exemplary
Service Award) in 1977 and in 1992. Butler's involvement with OGR includes
serving on the Executive Committee, chairing the 2001 Supplier Showcase
Committee and Supplier Showcase Advisory Council, the Finance Committee, and
the Long-Range Planning Committee. He has been a member of the Nomination
and Membership committees, and is the past regional chair for the state of
Nebraska. In addition to his involvement with OGR, Butler is a member of the
National Funeral Directors Association and the Nebraska Funeral Directors
Association. He also is active in numerous civic and religious
organizations. Butler holds a B.S. degree in mortuary science from the
University of Minnesota Mortuary Science Department.
In addition to its new president, OGR also installed Billy K. Wages of Wages
& Sons Funeral Home in Stone Mountain, Ga., president-elect; and Susan
McKneely of Harry McKneely and Son, Inc. of Hammond, La.,
secretary/treasurer. Newly elected directors are Joseph Ernest Pray, Pray
Funeral Home, Inc., Charlotte, Mich.; Robin L. Williams, R. Lee Williams &
Son Funeral Home & Crematory in St. Petersburg, Fla., returning for a second
term on the board; and Harold L. Lake, Rindt-Erdman Funeral Home in Arkansas
City, Kan.
Continuing on the 2002-2003 board are: Dennis D. Soderstrum, Soderstrum
Funeral Home, Story City, Iowa, immediate past president; Hatch Bailey,
Wilkirson-Hatch-Bailey Funeral Homes, Waco, Texas; Robert W. Childress,
Hamlett-Dobson Funeral Homes, Kingsport, Tenn.; George O. Darte, George
Darte Funeral Chapel, Inc., St. Catharines, Ontario; Charles E. Davis, Chas.
E. Davis Funeral Home with Crematory, Inverness, Fla.; Ronald R. Klee, Jr.,
Klee Funeral Home and Cremation Services, Shillington, Pa.; and John W.
Wenig, Huehns-Wenig Funeral Home, Sheboygen Falls, Wis.
OGR is one of the world's largest and most prestigious organizations
representing the independent funeral home. To hold membership, these firms
must establish and maintain the highest standards of quality service and
ethical conduct. OGR's credo has been, "Service measured not by gold but by
the Golden Rule" since its founding in 1928. For more information or for a
tif file of the new board, contact Janet J. Protzel, OGR director of
communications, (800) 637-8030, or e-mail: jprotzel@ogr.org.
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Harrington, Eileen, Associate Director, Federal Trade Commission, Marketing Practices (2000-)
Ms. Harrington will discuss federal government regulation of funeral industry practices. She testified at a Senate subcommittee hearing Friday on this issue. He will respond to audience telephone calls, faxes, and electronic mail. We'll hear from a representative of the funeral industry Tuesday on the program.
In a message dated 4/28/02 9:07:48 PM, fspano@nfda.org writes: John - NFDA President Robert Vandenbergh will be a guest on Washington Journal, on C-Span, Tuesday, April 30 from 9:30-10:00 a.m. (EDT). Mr. Vandenbergh will be discussing funeral industry regulations, and will respond to questions from the show host, as well as take questions from the viewing audience via telephone, fax and e-mail.
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Vandenbergh, Robert, President, National Funeral Directors Association (2002-)
Mr. Vandenbergh will talk about funeral industry practices and the federal government's regulation of the industry in light of recent problems in Georgia and other states. He will respond to audience telephone calls, faxes, and electronic mail.
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In a message dated 4/14/02 1:33:30 PM, Dan in California writes:
Dear John,
I read Lisa Carlson rebuke of Dan Isard and while I may not specifically agree on her thoughts. I am amused and weary of sources of industry gospel who pontificate with a 'wall street' and not a 'service' mentality. After all, is not the funeral industry apprehensive of Ms. Carlson as an "outsider" or is it that she simply too objective for us? Independent funeral service practitioners are soon to be, if not already, hostage to national schemes that small operators have no control or even influence over. Preneed is a perfect example and it appears to be a sinister cousin of the national health care debacle where doctors lost control of their market to insurance industry. Preselling makes little economic sense except as defensive marketing since the other guy is doing it. While the industry plays with this expensive boondoggle, it appears that real problems are either not addressed or solutions are accepted with less than adequate research. Until the industry accepts the responsibility of representing the real and particular funeral home interests, we will continue to waste time and resources chasing our collective tail.
Dan
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In a message dated 4/4/02 11:58:02 PM, Tim in Massachusetts writes:
A father is asked by his friend, "Has your son decided what he wants to be when he grows up?" "Yes, he wants to be a garbage collector," replied the boy's father.
His friend thought for a moment and responded, "That's a rather strange ambition to have for a career." "Well," said the boy's father, "he thinks that garbage collectors only work on Tuesdays!"
Received from Thomas S. Ellsworth.
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In a message dated 4/6/02 5:07:03 PM, Wilma in Montana writes:
Subj: I say this as your friend!
Read it from start to finish. I say this as your friend!
Money:
It can buy a House...............But not a Home
It can buy a Bed..................But not Sleep
It can buy a Clock................But not Time
It can buy you a Book..........But not knowledge
It can buy you a Position......But not Respect
It can buy you Medicine.......But not Health
It can buy you Blood............But not Life
It can buy you Sex..............But not Love
So you see money isn't everything. And it often causes pain and suffering.
I tell you all this because...........I am your Friend,
and as Your Friend,
I want to take away your pain and suffering...........
So send me all your money.......... And I will suffer for you.
CASH ONLY PLEASE
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In a message dated 4/17/02 12:37:00 PM, Mike in Massachusetts writes:
From Fort Lauderdale, A Final Journey Home (washingtonpost.com)
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In a message dated 4/21/02 8:37:00 AM, Richard in Pennsylvania writes: John here is whats on E-bay
http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?query=funeral+home&newu=1
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